Getting back to this person. His actions to Kelly gave a clear picture to what kind of person she was really dealing with, despite his initial communication. Plus, his reputation was reinforced by the refusal of another model to work with him. He may think that the measure of a person can’t be measured by who he cuts down but that’s EXACTLY how he will be measured. Plus in the online world the word (good or bad) spreads extremely quickly and it can be out of your control whether you like it or not.

Basically, he’s branded as a dick. So let it be written. So let it be done.

*Drops the mic*

Sticking to your guns may not get you every shoot, but when you look back, at least you won’t have any regrets. Kudos to you!

If you do a little more researching, you’ll see that he also owns a site dedicated to fathers. It was actually that which led me to return his request for a phone call, since I assumed (my fault) that someone with a daughter wouldn’t degrade women. It’s doubly disappointing to see that a minority man with a daughter would teach hatred and discrimination. It’s just entirely too hypocritical. I hope that his daughter doesn’t grow up to be like him.

There are a myriad of adult sites on the internet, with varying genres, niches, and scenes. There are also a myriad of ladies, with varying kinks, sexual needs, and limits. I am sure that this producer will find enough ladies to make his site something he can present to the public. However, it appears that his goal in presenting a BBW site which involves degrading them for their size will not be accepted well within the BBW community and for FAs.

It’s his right to create any sort of site he wishes. It’s also his right to create a site that probably will only cater to fragile-ego’d men who can only get aroused if they see women being degraded and demeaned. However, to call me derogatory names when speaking to me is unacceptable – and so it is also my right to alert ladies about this poor excuse for a father and man.

EVERYTHING you do becomes your brand.

This is the most concise formula to nail down a quite multifold and very real effect. I might borrow that if you don’t mind, Kelly.

But to add just one thought: The internet registers anything you go public with. And it can have a very long memory. So when you’re offering services that target an audience, it is very likely that people who consider to work with you will have a look into the value of your ‘brand’ on the internet. Now when you’re a model and you’re getting hired less then before, the reason can be that you are damaged as a brand – because you have appeared in content that didn’t show you in the best light. Even when the company knows that you can do better. What matters is what the average consumers are thinking or assuming of you. When they feel you have appeared as a turn-off, then you might have a problem. Cause they are the ones to spend money.

If i were in business relations with models, i would go further than Kelly. I would clearly advice them to stay away from such a company. The adult business has a long history with such threats being VERY REAL. Thus there is no argument later like “Don’t worry, this was just some random saying”. Whatever the real intention was, the receiver MUST take such a threat very seriously. That’s why i can’t see any excuse .

I think we all have had some issues with producers… which is why I’m happy to be associated with the producers I am… and steer WELL CLEAR of those that I simply cannot work with. Especially when they start name calling or the child like responses AFTER they have chased you down to work with you.

As always love, you are RIGHT ON POINT! “Left Brain”!